Eye contact is a powerful thing and can lead to a deeper level of intimacy and understanding. However, not every guy who looks into your eyes during sex is a hopeless romantic.
Some men find it difficult to handle visual stimulation, so they close their eyes during sex to avoid distraction. But what about the ones who prefer to keep their eyes open?
1. He’s trying to intimidate you
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there who want to take advantage of others. Sometimes they use tactics like prolonged eye contact to intimidate and make you feel small. This can be a real turn off for most women, especially if it’s during sex.
When a guy stares into your eyes for more than 4 seconds, it can feel as if you are being boreholed into his soul. This can be a sign of sexual attraction, but it can also be a way to show dominance. Look for other body language signals, such as raised eyebrows and dilated pupils, to help you determine whether his intentions are positive or not.
He may be looking into your eyes because he finds them beautiful. This is a common reason why guys stare into the faces of their crushes. They are trying to drink in every detail so they can build a mental picture of you that they can hold on to when you’re not around. This is similar to how a hero in a movie looks at their heroine.
2. He’s trying to control you
He might think that eye contact is sexy, and it can be for a few seconds – but only if it’s done right. If he stares into your eyes during sex, it could be a sign that he’s trying to control you or even play a game of cat-and-mouse.
If he’s making eye contact with you while talking, it might mean that he finds your opinion interesting. He might be hanging onto every word you say because he thinks that you’re super smart or funny. This can also be a way of flirting with you.
If he’s staring into your eyes while you’re eating, it could be a sign that sex is on his mind. He might be thinking about how much he wants to kiss you or how amazing it will feel to hold you. It’s a good sign that he’s into you, but if he’s just looking for sex, you should probably look away. He’s probably not as into you as he pretends to be. The best thing you can do is be yourself and let him see that.
3. He’s interested in you
If he stares into your eyes and doesn’t look away, it means he is interested in you. He wants to see if you are a woman who can connect with him emotionally. He is trying to make sure that you want him and that he’s not just using you for his body.
He could also be interested in you because he thinks you’re beautiful. Regardless of the reason, this type of eye contact is pretty sexy. If he also looks at your eyebrows or dilates his pupils, then you know that he’s definitely attracted to you.
Sometimes, he might be staring into your eyes because of something that happened earlier in the day or even because he saw this behavior in porn movies. However, if this happens during sex, then it’s probably because he is interested in you and wants to build trust with you. In addition, he is trying to find out if you are sexually aroused and if he can get you to have sex with him. That’s why it is important to be able to recognize the different types of eye contact.
4. He’s trying to make you happy
Whether it’s in real life or on a romantic date, eye contact is the quickest way to show someone you’re interested. If he looks into your eyes while you’re making love, it’s a sign that he wants to make sure you’re happy. It can also be a way to show him that you trust him and are comfortable with his attention.
In some cases, it’s easy to misread a guy’s intentions. It’s possible that he’s staring into your eyes for so long because he thinks you’re beautiful, but he doesn’t necessarily mean it sexually.
Alternatively, it could be that he’s trying to intimidate you or control you by making you feel helpless and incompetent. This is a common trick that many men use to manipulate their partners, and it’s not particularly sexy. In this case, it’s better to talk things out with him and find out what his motivations are than to ignore them or leave the relationship altogether. Then you can decide what’s best for you. You can even try doing an eye gazing exercise with him to see how you connect in a more mindful way.
5. He’s trying to connect to your soul
If a guy is staring into your eyes deeply, this shows that he is confident and wants to connect with you on a deeper level. This is because maintaining eye contact for a few seconds triggers the brain to produce phenylethylamine, which is responsible for falling in love.
He could also be trying to tell you that he sees your soul in your eyes. This is because looking into someone’s eyes is a way of seeing through them, including their fears, insecurities, and desires.
In any case, if he is staring into your eyes during sex, this means that he wants to connect with you on a deeper emotional level. To do this, he needs to be mindful of what is happening in the moment. This is why it is so important to practice mindfulness techniques, like the ones explained in this free video by James Bauer. Click the link to watch it now. It will teach you simple phrases and texts that you can use to make him feel completely yours.